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um has anyone fallen in love with me yet it’s almost christmas
It’s totally okay to say “you know what, this isn’t making me happy” and to walk away from whatever or whoever is keeping you from the happiness you deserve
how tf you walk away from yourself tho
who here was on tumblr 4+ years ago
my tiny human body isn’t big enough to hold all the love that’s inside me and that’s why i’m always crying
Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better and answer the questions.
Tagged by my fellow monsterfucker: @hannibalssweaters (thank you! ❤)
Relationship Status: Forever alone (not really, just gotta put myself out there eventually.)
Favorite Color: black + every color except brown, rainbow!
Top Three Ships: Stucky! (Steve Rogers/Bucky Barnes), Symbrock (Eddie Brock/Venom), Papa III + Everyone (Papa is a total slut & I’m living for it)
Lipstick or chapstick: Chapstick. I haven’t fully discovered the joys of lipstick nor do I really care.
Last Song: Venom by Eminem
Last Movie: Moana ❤❤ I watch it almost every night before bed.
Currently Reading: Nothing 😦 But I just finished reading some really good Symbrock smut. Because of course I did.
Tagging: @randomfandompenguin @loricameback @captain-rogers-beard @sugardaddytonystark @lovelybones81 @raspberrysnuggles @devilgoat @papi-chulo-bucky @faerieincombatboots
The beauteous @ladyrevealedofcloak tagged me 😘😘😘
Relationship status: Married 18 years. Haven’t killed him yet. YET
Favorite color: Purple
Top Three Ships: Stucky, Stucky and Stucky. Sorry, but I’m hardcore Stucky! 😊😊
Lipstick or Chapstick: Lipstick only if I go out, but other than that, I’m neked
Last Song: All I Want For Christmas is You/Mariah Carey
Last Movie: Thor: Ragnarok at home, Infinity War in the theater
Currently Reading: pffft, I’m reading pretty much all fanfics now. Last thing I read was by @theimpossibleg1rl and to anyone reading this, she is an awesome writer…check her out!
With that said I will tag her, @bolontiku @the-observant-fangirl @jamesbarnesappreciationsociety @sfreeborn @saffreelove @nomadicpixel @magellan-88 @swiglit
I was tagged by @loricameback and @saffreelove.
Relationship status: Married.
Favorite color: Purple or Blue. Or Purple. Or Blue.
Top Three Ships: I just want everyone to be happy and get along.
Lipstick or Chapstick: Lip Gloss usually. Sometimes lipstick. Or Bare.
Last Song: Superstition – Stevie Wonder
Last Movie: Fantastic Beasts right now (Netflix), in the theater, ironically, the Crimes of Grindelwald.
Currently Reading:
Super Volcano: The Ticking Time Bomb Beneath Yellowstone National Park by Greg Breining. Its a fantastic read, and I’m a huge ass nerd. What a pairing.
Tagging: @mrs-captain-evans, @no-champagne-socialist, @just-add-butter, @the-real-kellymonster,
I was tagged by @nomadicpixel thank you darling 😘
Relationship status: In a relationship 😍
Favourite colour: Purple! 💜
Top Three Ships: Not really a shipper, just want everyone to be happy and having fun 😊
Lipstick or Chapstick: Normally bare but chapstick
Last Song: Vanilla Twlight by Owl City 🎵
Last Movie: At home – Cars 3 🚗 At cinema – Bohemian Rhapsody 🎶
Currently Reading: Other than Fan Fic?! 🤩 Tim Peake – My Guide to Life in Space
Tagging: @mycapt-ohcapt @katiew1973 @whiskey-cokenfanfic @bloggingfromherbed @theycallmebecca @heather-lynn @princess-evans-addict @pinkymcfly @whostheblondegirl @pegasusdragontiger @winters-buck
I was tagged by @mrs-captain-evans thanks!😙💜
Relationship Status: Single
Favorite Color: Purple and Blue
Top Three Ships: I don’t really have any.
Lipstick or Chapstick: Lipstick if I’m going somewhere special like church but mostly Chapstick.
Last Song: “Finesse” – Bruno Mars 💜 (love Bruno)
Last Movie: Christopher Robin (because it was too cute and I love Winnie the Pooh)
Currently Reading: Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan. The movie was good the book even better!
I tag: @queenofkings121 @chrisevansisdaddy13 @so-not-hotmess @whereeverythingisbetter @siren-queen03 @keepyourdreamsalive @lizziththegreat @allithewriter @emmiejames
Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better wins answer the questions
Tagged by the lovely fellow Secret Santa @whiskey-cokenfanfic
Relationship Status: It’s really complicated
Favorite Color: Purple and Green
Top 3 Ships: Tony Stark x Steve Roger, Beast Boy/Garfield Logan x Raven/Rachel Roth, Sasuke Uchiha x Naruto Uzumaki
Lipstick or Chapstick: Neither. I’m awful to my lips tbh
Last Song: The Bells of Dublin album by The Chieftains
Last Movie: I finished was Bourne Legacy which I love
Currently Reading: Fallout: New World Wanderer by FalloutWanderer on AO3. It’s a really good Fallout New Vegas fan fic!
I tag: @aunty-peggy @polygamoussquamous @supersoldier-of-asgard @vodka-and-daydreams @raspberryswish @buckymorelikefuckmebarnes @yawpers @danni20201 @moo-mar + a bonus tag of @delicatelyherdreams (But it’s entirely optional for if you wanna do it ❤ and yes most of these are my newer followers or people I’ve followed forever but don’t really know)
Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better and answer the questions
Tagged by: @allithewriter
Relationship Status: I’m talking to people at the moment but nothing exclusive
Favorite Color: Yellow
Top 3 Ships: Nygmobblepot, Stucky, Ironstrange
Lipstick or Chapstick: Vaseline or Chapstick but Lipstick on occasion
Last Song: Sunflower by Post Malone and Swae Lee
Last Movie: Blackkklansman
Currently Reading: Existentialism is Humanism by Jean Paul Sartre
I tag: @knightinpinkunderwear @buckysbeardliness @afirefromheaven @lantia @godisavalkyrie @oh-snap-bucky @aunty-peggy @imagineandimagine @anyoneforteaus
Tagged by: @polygamoussquamous
Relationship status: married to @cobblepotcrimefamily
Favourite colour: purple
Top 3 ships: Nygmobblepot, Gobblepot, Riddlergrdon
Lipstick or chapstick: wow what an important question. Lip balm
Last song: Wretches and Kings by Linkin Park
Last movie: Bohemian Rhapsody
Currently reading: Scrivener’s Moon by Philip Reeve
I tag: @merryandrewsworld @gottaread2 @deeblueriddles @buck-stars @buttercupbuildmeup @racheldadtaylor @ezrile @veromuses @conspicuous-absence
Tagged by: @afirefromheaven
Relationship status: single
Favourite colour: pink
Top 3 ships: destiel, nygmobblepot, merthur
Lipstick or chapstick: probably lipstick though i’m more of a lip gloss girl
Last song: sunsetz by cigarettes after sex
Last movie: death becomes her
Currently reading: i’m in the middle/between a lot of books atm but i’ll finish the dirk gently’s holistic detective agency book one of these days
I tag: @maybeicanbesaved @angrylightwood @future-world-dictator @viviansternwood @actuallyatrashqueen @unthinkablepossiblehappyendings @dykester @doctorwhoisnotonfire @diyozas (only if you want to!!)
Tagged by: @conspicuous-absence 💞
Relationship status: single.
Favourite colour: aqua.
Top 3 ships: Destiel (Supernatural), Stucky (Marvel), Tiva (NCIS)
Lipstick or chapstick: both.
Last song: Care Less More – Olivia O’Brien
Last movie: Outlaw King, on Netflix.
Currently reading: the final book in the Grisha Trilogy: Ruin & Rising by Leigh Bardugo.
I tag: @tomhrrdy, @doritograntrogers, @kitkasimba, @griffinxwoods, @kevinsray, @chokemetomholland, @wilykyli, @crazy3qualsgenius, @starfire-s, @i-can-do–this-all-day, @mysteryuntamedmind, @buckyward, @trufflepasta

y’all ever sit in a therapist appointment and just think “wow, turns out i’m really fucked up”
When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:
“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”
Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either.
Op I’d like to thank you for sharing this. Ever since the first time I’ve read it I’ve held it in my mind and it really has helped me to be kinder to others and to myself.


