conspicuous-absence:

afirefromheaven:

polygamoussquamous:

allithewriter:

whiskey-cokenfanfic:

mrs-captain-evans:

nomadicpixel:

loricameback:

ladyrevealedofcloak:

Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better and answer the questions.

Tagged by my fellow monsterfucker: @hannibalssweaters (thank you! ❤)

Relationship Status: Forever alone (not really, just gotta put myself out there eventually.)

Favorite Color: black + every color except brown, rainbow!

Top Three Ships: Stucky! (Steve Rogers/Bucky Barnes), Symbrock (Eddie Brock/Venom), Papa III + Everyone (Papa is a total slut & I’m living for it)

Lipstick or chapstick: Chapstick. I haven’t fully discovered the joys of lipstick nor do I really care.

Last Song: Venom by Eminem

Last Movie: Moana ❤❤ I watch it almost every night before bed.

Currently Reading: Nothing 😦 But I just finished reading some really good Symbrock smut. Because of course I did.

Tagging: @randomfandompenguin @loricameback @captain-rogers-beard @sugardaddytonystark @lovelybones81 @raspberrysnuggles @devilgoat @papi-chulo-bucky @faerieincombatboots

The beauteous @ladyrevealedofcloak tagged me 😘😘😘

Relationship status: Married 18 years. Haven’t killed him yet. YET

Favorite color: Purple

Top Three Ships: Stucky, Stucky and Stucky. Sorry, but I’m hardcore Stucky! 😊😊

Lipstick or Chapstick: Lipstick only if I go out, but other than that, I’m neked

Last Song: All I Want For Christmas is You/Mariah Carey

Last Movie: Thor: Ragnarok at home, Infinity War in the theater

Currently Reading: pffft, I’m reading pretty much all fanfics now. Last thing I read was by @theimpossibleg1rl and to anyone reading this, she is an awesome writer…check her out!

With that said I will tag her, @bolontiku @the-observant-fangirl @jamesbarnesappreciationsociety @sfreeborn @saffreelove @nomadicpixel @magellan-88 @swiglit

I was tagged by @loricameback and @saffreelove.

Relationship status: Married.  

Favorite color: Purple or Blue. Or Purple. Or Blue.  

Top Three Ships: I just want everyone to be happy and get along. 

Lipstick or Chapstick: Lip Gloss usually.  Sometimes lipstick. Or Bare. 

Last Song: Superstition – Stevie Wonder

Last Movie: Fantastic Beasts right now (Netflix), in the theater, ironically, the Crimes of Grindelwald.

Currently Reading:

Super Volcano: The Ticking Time Bomb Beneath Yellowstone National Park by Greg Breining.  Its a fantastic read, and I’m a huge ass nerd. What a pairing. 

Tagging: @mrs-captain-evans, @no-champagne-socialist, @just-add-butter, @the-real-kellymonster,

@patzammit, @capcevans81@mariekoukie6661 

I was tagged by @nomadicpixel thank you darling 😘

Relationship status: In a relationship 😍

Favourite colour: Purple! 💜

Top Three Ships: Not really a shipper, just want everyone to be happy and having fun 😊

Lipstick or Chapstick: Normally bare but chapstick

Last Song: Vanilla Twlight by Owl City 🎵

Last Movie: At home – Cars 3 🚗 At cinema – Bohemian Rhapsody 🎶

Currently Reading: Other than Fan Fic?! 🤩 Tim Peake – My Guide to Life in Space

Tagging: @mycapt-ohcapt @katiew1973 @whiskey-cokenfanfic @bloggingfromherbed @theycallmebecca @heather-lynn @princess-evans-addict @pinkymcfly @whostheblondegirl @pegasusdragontiger @winters-buck

I was tagged by @mrs-captain-evans thanks!😙💜

Relationship Status: Single

Favorite Color: Purple and Blue

Top Three Ships: I don’t really have any.

Lipstick or Chapstick: Lipstick if I’m going somewhere special like church but mostly Chapstick.

Last Song: “Finesse” – Bruno Mars 💜 (love Bruno)

Last Movie: Christopher Robin (because it was too cute and I love Winnie the Pooh)

Currently Reading: Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan. The movie was good the book even better!

I tag: @queenofkings121 @chrisevansisdaddy13 @so-not-hotmess @whereeverythingisbetter @siren-queen03 @keepyourdreamsalive @lizziththegreat @allithewriter @emmiejames

Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better wins answer the questions

Tagged by the lovely fellow Secret Santa @whiskey-cokenfanfic

Relationship Status: It’s really complicated

Favorite Color: Purple and Green

Top 3 Ships: Tony Stark x Steve Roger, Beast Boy/Garfield Logan x Raven/Rachel Roth, Sasuke Uchiha x Naruto Uzumaki

Lipstick or Chapstick: Neither. I’m awful to my lips tbh

Last Song: The Bells of Dublin album by The Chieftains

Last Movie: I finished was Bourne Legacy which I love

Currently Reading: Fallout: New World Wanderer by FalloutWanderer on AO3. It’s a really good Fallout New Vegas fan fic!

I tag: @aunty-peggy @polygamoussquamous @supersoldier-of-asgard @vodka-and-daydreams @raspberryswish @buckymorelikefuckmebarnes @yawpers @danni20201 @moo-mar + a bonus tag of @delicatelyherdreams (But it’s entirely optional for if you wanna do it ❤ and yes most of these are my newer followers or people I’ve followed forever but don’t really know)

Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better and answer the questions

Tagged by: @allithewriter

Relationship Status: I’m talking to people at the moment but nothing exclusive

Favorite Color: Yellow

Top 3 Ships: Nygmobblepot, Stucky, Ironstrange

Lipstick or Chapstick: Vaseline or Chapstick but Lipstick on occasion 

Last Song: Sunflower by Post Malone and Swae Lee

Last Movie: Blackkklansman

Currently Reading: Existentialism is Humanism by Jean Paul Sartre

I tag: @knightinpinkunderwear @buckysbeardliness @afirefromheaven @lantia @godisavalkyrie @oh-snap-bucky @aunty-peggy @imagineandimagine @anyoneforteaus 

Tagged by: @polygamoussquamous

Relationship status: married to @cobblepotcrimefamily

Favourite colour: purple

Top 3 ships: Nygmobblepot, Gobblepot, Riddlergrdon

Lipstick or chapstick: wow what an important question. Lip balm

Last song: Wretches and Kings by Linkin Park

Last movie: Bohemian Rhapsody

Currently reading: Scrivener’s Moon by Philip Reeve

I tag: @merryandrewsworld @gottaread2 @deeblueriddles @buck-stars @buttercupbuildmeup @racheldadtaylor @ezrile @veromuses @conspicuous-absence

Tagged by: @afirefromheaven

Relationship status: single

Favourite colour: pink

Top 3 ships: destiel, nygmobblepot, merthur

Lipstick or chapstick: probably lipstick though i’m more of a lip gloss girl

Last song: sunsetz by cigarettes after sex

Last movie: death becomes her

Currently reading: i’m in the middle/between a lot of books atm but i’ll finish the dirk gently’s holistic detective agency book one of these days 

I tag: @maybeicanbesaved @angrylightwood @future-world-dictator @viviansternwood @actuallyatrashqueen @unthinkablepossiblehappyendings @dykester @doctorwhoisnotonfire @diyozas (only if you want to!!)

Tagged by: @conspicuous-absence 💞

Relationship status: single.

Favourite colour: aqua.

Top 3 ships: Destiel (Supernatural), Stucky (Marvel), Tiva (NCIS)

Lipstick or chapstick: both.

Last song: Care Less More – Olivia O’Brien

Last movie: Outlaw King, on Netflix.

Currently reading: the final book in the Grisha Trilogy: Ruin & Rising by Leigh Bardugo.

I tag: @tomhrrdy, @doritograntrogers, @kitkasimba, @griffinxwoods, @kevinsray, @chokemetomholland, @wilykyli, @crazy3qualsgenius, @starfire-s@i-can-do–this-all-day, @mysteryuntamedmind, @buckyward, @trufflepasta

boggoth:

coffee-khaleesi:

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

Op I’d like to thank you for sharing this. Ever since the first time I’ve read it I’ve held it in my mind and it really has helped me to be kinder to others and to myself.