Like I get that Sutton’s mom was trying but Sutton was standing there, telling Jane and Kat about how her mom treated her as a child and the effect her neglect had on Sutton and the nightmare she grew up in and Jane was like “at least you have a mom” and it was just so ugly like yeah not having a mom affected Jane but if someone with a toxic parent is complaining about their toxic parent it’s shitty of someone to say that they should consider themselves lucky for having them